We spend so much time trying to "help" those who struggle with the holidays, that sometimes we forget that for most people in recovery, it's a joyful, happy time and a reason to celebrate. Visitors to the About.com Alcoholism Forum share how they celebrate the holidays and maintain their sobriety.

Visitors to the Alcoholism / Substance Abuse site tell how they stayed clean and sober during the holiday season:

• Martha B. Get Into the Solution
  
• Nadia P. Go To a Meeting
  
• Carolyn It's Not What's in the Glass
  
• Jim G. Stay Clear of HALT
  
• Thea You Have Something to Give
  

Not drinking when everyone else is can be very difficult, but it can be done with careful planning and determination. Here are some tips on how to resist that urge to "just have one" to celebrate with everyone else during holiday season get togethers.

Staying sober during the holidays may not be easy, but it can be done. Visitors to the Alcoholism / Substance Abuse site share their experience:

• Leni Have a Gratitude Dinner
  
• Leo Look to This Day
  
• Lilly Enjoy the True Beauty of Holiday
  
• Reed A. Stay in Touch With Newcomers
  
• Lee Go to the Alano Club
  
• Lisa Stay Away From Drinking Friends