Why did you decide to quit?
I drank heavily for almost 40 years and I think that I had some control over my drinking. However, that control vanished completely within a period of less than a couple of years. I then realized that I could never drink enough to satisfy my needs and that with all of my willpower, I could not stop drinking on my own - that was one hell of a place to be. The two choices that I had were very clear in my mind: one was to continue to complete ruin (within a short time) and early death; the other was to swallow my pride and seek help. I hated both options.
How did you get sober?
Although I did not like Alcoholics Anonymous or believe very much that they could help me, I soon realized that I was completely wrong. With the help of AA, a Higher Power, and a good sponsor, I found it very easy to get sober. I did not believe in miracles but now, I do.
The 12 Step Program of AA has transformed my life completely. The self-pity that came with the realization that I am an alcoholic is now gone. Before, I barely existed - now I can live.
I can never give enough thanks to God and to AA for what I have been freely given. My great wish is that other people who are suffering because of alcohol will find the strength to reach out and seek that same help, that will bring them happiness, peace of mind and many other benefits.
Advice
- Without a doubt, the greatest advice that I could give to anyone who is considering quitting is to do what I was afraid to do for so long - go along to a meeting of Alcoholics Anonymous - you won't regret it.
- Give yourself a chance by attending as many meetings as you can manage at the start. Listen to others sharing and some of what they say will begin to stick in your mind.
- Bear in mind that you are among people who are just like you but who have recovered from alcoholism. They have been where you are and will understand your problems as nobody else can.
- It will work for you if you want it to work.
